Article by Mel Ulle
There are few social ills that feel as hopeless as domestic violence. Our world is not built to support victims, and anyone who says otherwise is either an idiot or an asshole. Probably both, but above all they have no idea how much complexity there is for those trying to overcome the horror of domestic violence.
Beyond the obvious tragedy of physical violence, there are several other forms of violence that victims experience. Psychologically, they often struggle with PTSD, depression, anxiety, addiction and low self-esteem, which affects their emotional well-being and ability to function in daily life. Navigating the legal system, with its complexities surrounding protection orders, child custody, and divorce, adds another layer of stress and potential trauma. The effects of domestic violence can be all-consuming, overwhelming and long-lasting.
Having helped a friend find her way out of a marriage that included the triple threat of physical, psychological and financial abuse, I saw first-hand the many layers of challenges, upon challenges she faced as she struggled to achieve freedom. I understood for the first time why it often feels so helpless. The typical reaction, “why doesn’t she just leave?” is common, naïve and admittedly, something I once said myself. The perceived path of least resistance, though painful, often wins and victims end up right back with their abusers.
As great as our beautiful state is, for Coloradans facing the trauma of gender-based violence, navigating the legal system is both overwhelming and confusing. Enter our protagonist, Project Safeguard, offering life-changing legal assistance and advocacy to help survivors secure safety and rebuild their lives.
Project Safeguard is a Denver-based nonprofit with a mission to empower survivors of domestic violence, sexual assault, and stalking by providing free legal services and support. Founded in 1984, (yes, 2024 was a big anniversary for them), Project Safeguard has been a constant champion for survivors, recognizing that legal recourse is essential for breaking free from abuse and achieving long-term stability.
Navigating the aftermath of gender-based violence is a daunting challenge, often compounded by complicated legal issues that demand careful attention. Survivors often find themselves needing help with a mountain of legal matters, including obtaining civil protection orders to establish a barrier of safety against their abusers. These orders are essential to preventing further harm by prohibiting abusers from contacting or approaching their victims. They offer an important layer of security and respite. When violence occurs within families, the legal landscape becomes even more complex, with issues like divorce, child custody, and child support intertwined with the trauma of abuse. Survivors need guidance and representation to make sure their rights, and the safety and well-being of their children are protected during court proceedings.
Project Safeguard assists survivors in developing comprehensive safety plans, including legal strategies, housing options, and access to other support services. The team at Project Safeguard has been trained in trauma-informed practices and knows how to treat clients with dignity and just the right amount of TLC.
They understand that the legal system can be particularly overwhelming for someone who has experienced trauma. Their advocates offer compassionate support and guidance through every step of the legal process, ensuring survivors feel informed, empowered, and less alone as they seek justice and safety.
Project Safeguard’s work can be seen throughout Colorado communities, where gender-based violence sadly remains a pervasive issue. Their work is essential and dismantles the barriers that so often prevent survivors from accessing legal support. Many survivors face financial constraints, language barriers, or a lack of awareness regarding their legal rights, leaving them feeling isolated and vulnerable. Project Safeguard’s team addresses these challenges by providing free legal services and culturally sensitive support, ensuring that all survivors, regardless of their background or circumstances, have access to justice and protection. By offering a safe and empowering space, they help survivors understand their options, navigate complex legal processes, and advocate for their needs, which gives them a sense of agency and control during a time of immense vulnerability.
This team works hard to prevent further harm and to promote long-term healing for survivors. Access to legal support is an integral part of the healing journey through which survivors can begin to reclaim their lives and move forward with strength and resilience. Project Safeguard’s approach not only addresses the immediate legal needs of survivors but also strengthens their long-term well-being and empowers them to rebuild their lives free from violence and fear.
If you or someone you know is experiencing gender-based violence in Colorado, Project Safeguard can help. They offer services in English and Spanish and can be reached through their website, www.psghelps.org.
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